Why are we so interested in beating ourselves up … and always labeling things like “wasting time"

Gary Vaynerchuk
June 18, 2026
1 minute 30 seconds

In this video, we delve into the psychological reasons behind our tendency to criticize ourselves for how we spend our time. Many of us have internalized the idea that any moment not spent productively is inherently wasted. This mindset can lead to unnecessary guilt and a constant feeling of inadequacy, as we compare our choices against societal standards of productivity. The video challenges this narrative, encouraging viewers to rethink what it means to truly use time well. 

Furthermore, it examines the consequences of labeling our experiences as wasted time. By doing so, we not only diminish our enjoyment of life but also hinder our ability to appreciate moments of rest and leisure. The video suggests that we should embrace a more balanced perspective, recognizing the value in both productivity and downtime. Ultimately, it invites us to reconsider our relationship with time and to celebrate all experiences, rather than condemning some as unworthy.

  1. We often label time as wasted due to societal pressures.
  2. This mindset leads to feelings of guilt and inadequacy.
  3. The video encourages a reevaluation of how we view time.
  4. It highlights the importance of balancing productivity with leisure.
  5. Embracing all experiences can enrich our lives.

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